I am now at a crossroads looking for direction that will be better for my work and family. I have been working in civil engineering field for 10 years. and worked three years in UK and returned to HK last year. now I have another offer in UK and asking me going back? I have two children of 6 &2. my wife prefers going back to UK as it will be better for my sons and my family. but i don't like the work style there and was tired of it. what is your opinion?