Dear Career Doctor,
I was seeing my boss discreetly for a few months and he suddenly broke it off with me. It pains me to see him everyday and it’s unbearable to continue working under him. I know it was stupid to start anything but I really thought we had something special. Turns out it may have just been just a fling for him. I avoid talking to him and dread our weekly team meetings or bumping into him in the pantry as I’m afraid I’ll burst into tears. None of my team knows about this which is a relief but at the same time makes it tougher in some respect. Should I quit or ask for a transfer? I don’t know how I can take it much longer. What should I do?